The Power of I Am Sorry

THE POWER OF *I AM SORRY.*

*I am sorry,* a short but mighty sentence!

If you wish to live long, don't joke with this short sentence, *I am sorry.* Do you know how many people who had gone to early grave because they neglected the therapeutic power of *I am sorry.* 

Most of the troubles in most homes are heightened because wives are too big to say *I am sorry* to their husbands and you can trust the ego of  husbands in saying same to their wives. 

Quarrel lingers between friends because no party wants to say *I am sorry.* Each says or asks, why should I be the first to say *I am sorry?* He or she would beat his or her chest and utter the ego phrase, *a whole me!* 

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the part of the world where saying *I am sorry* is a hard nut to crack while curses are easily unleashed. 

Welcome to the part of the world where people refer to a person who says *I am sorry* in a midst of a rift as a *weaker sex*: one who is not man enough; one who is foolish. 

Welcome to Africa where saying *I am sorry* is tougher than forcing a donkey to pass  through a needle hole.  

All of us are victims of this discussion. We have lost valuable assets, money and even lives because of this cheap and affordable sentence *I am sorry.* It simply cost only a breath of speech. 

Have you ever wondered why domestic violence is less pronounced in the western world? It is simply because they understand the efficacy of *I am sorry.*

Husbands say it to their wives and even children whenever they err, wives and children do the same  and life goes on fine.

Friends, this is simply a piece to encourage us to cultivate  a habit of saying *I am sorry.* It is difficult but readily affordable. 

Learn how to say *I AM SORRY* even if you are right.

If this message offends you in one way or the other, *I am sorry*
My apologies.

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Quotes by Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

While I was off Social Media for a while, I had time to explore my writing. I came up with the following quotes. Make a comment on the ones you like.

The funny difference between a friend and an enemy is when both give a gift one will receive a hug and/or nice words while the other will receive an insult and/or a slap. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

Things will happen, bad things will happen. It will naturally weigh you down, but make a choice, and choose joy. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

People's destiny will change because they will hold on to the statement "It was not meant to be" forgetting that nothing good comes easy. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

Although it may not look like anything good can come out of someone, never ever write off anyone, including yourself. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

If you don't have enough patience to work hard and wait for that which you desire your life may become a lesson to others instead of an example. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

When two people argue which is bound to happen because they are two different people, the argument itself is not the problem. The problem is that both of them want to win regardless. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

In your quest to find love, you may be hurt. Don't let it stop you because love is a beautiful thing and the reason for our existence. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

We were made in the image and likeness of God and God is Love. So when people say there is no such thing as true love. They probably don't know God. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

The problem with humanity is that even after experience, we fail to appreciate good situations or conditions we find ourselves in until they leave us. - Ifeanyi Nnamdi-Okagbue

Life Is A Struggle

If only life was that easy... But nope it isn't. It's hard, messy, cold, wicked, unforgiving, unbearable. And when you find some form of happiness, life takes it from you. And if it doesn't, then it takes something else.

When you think you have it all, it's makes you realise that now you have so much to loose. You struggle to become wealthy, it takes away your love. If you struggle to hold onto that love, it takes away your friend or your family. And even if you have that, then it's your health. It's always something.

Life makes sure you just never have all you need and want. It's always a struggle. Despite all the heartache and misery life throws at you, you still hold on tight. Why? Because the first and strongest primal need in every human and even animals, is the preservation of one's own life.

So keep on keeping on. Because it's not about getting there. Or whether you get there or not. You don't have a choice in the matter. You must stay alive until the time God calls you.

Don't let anyone dictate your life for you. Because, at the end of the day, even if you lived it your way, it may not bring you all the happiness you need. But it would be worse for you, if you let someone make your choices for you, which can bring about so much resentment.

By Afam Nnamdi-Okagbue

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