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Wednesday, 22 August 2012

An Inspiring True Life Story

‎!*!*!So Inspiring! A must Read!*!*!



A cold March wind danced around the dead of night in Dallas as the Doctor walked into the small hospital room of Diana Blessing. Still groggy from surgery, her husband David held her hand as they braced themselves for the latest news. That afternoon of March 10,1991, complications had forced Diana, only 24 weeks pregnant, to Danae Lu Blessing.

At 12 inches long and weighing only one pound and nine ounces, they already knew she was perilously premature.Still, the doctor’s soft words dropped like bombs. I don’t think she’s going to make it, he said, as kindly as he could.“There’s only a 10 percent chance she will live through the night, and even then, if by some slim chance she does make it, her future could be a very cruel one.” Numb with disbelief, David and Diana listened as the doctor described the devastating problems Danae would likely face if she survived. She would never walk, she would never talk, she would probably be blind, and she would certainly be prone to other catastrophic conditions from cerebral palsy to complete mental retardation, and on and on. “No! No!” was all Diana could say. She and David, with their 5-year-old son Dustin, had long dreamed of the day they would have a daughter to become a family of four. 

Now, within a matter of hours, that dream was slipping away.
Through the dark hours of morning as Danae held onto life by the thinnest thread, Diana slipped in and out of sleep, growing more and more determined that their tiny daughter would live, and live to be a healthy,happy young girl.But David,fully awake and listening to additional dire details of their daughter’s chances of ever leaving the hospital alive, much less healthy, knew he must confront his wife with the inevitable. David walked in and said that we needed to talk about making funeral arrangements. Diana remembers, ‘I felt so bad for him because he was doing everything, trying to include me in what was going on, but Ijust wouldn’t listen, I couldn’t listen. I said, “No, that is not going to happen, no way! I don’t care what the doctors say; Danae is not going to die!One day she will be just fine, and she will be coming home with us!”

As if willed to live by Diana’s determination, Danae clung to life hour after hour, with the help of every medical machine and marvel her miniature body could endure. But as those first days passed, a new agony set in for David and Diana. Because Danae’s under-developed nervous system was essentially raw, the lightest kiss or caress only intensified her discomfort, so they couldn’t even cradle their tiny baby girl against their chests to offer the strength of their love. All they could do, as Danae struggled alone beneath the ultraviolet light inthe tangle of tubes and wires, was to pray that God would stay close to their precious little girl. There was never a moment when Danae suddenly grew stronger.

But as the weeks went by, she did slowly gain an ounce of weight here and an ounce of strength there. At last, when Danae turned two months old, her parents were able to hold her in their arms for the very first time. And two months later-though doctors continued to gently but grimly warn that her chances of surviving, much less living any kind of normal life, were next to zero. Danae went home from the hospital, just as her mother had predicted.

Today, five years later, Danae is a petite but feisty young girl with glittering gray eyes and an unquenchable zest for life. She shows no signs, what so ever, of any mental or physical impairment. Simply, she is everything a little girl can be and more-but that happy ending is far from the end of her story.

One blistering afternoon in the summer of 1996 near her home in Irving,Texas, Danae was sitting in her mother’s lap in the bleachers of a local ballpark where her brother Dustin’s baseball team was practicing. As always, Danae was chattering non-stop with her mother and several other adults sitting nearby when she suddenly fell silent. Hugging her arms across her chest, Danae asked, “Do you smell that?” Smelling the air and detecting the approach of a thunderstorm, Diana replied,“Yes, it smells like rain.” Danae closed her eyes and again asked, “Do you smell that?” Once again, her mother replied, “Yes, I think we’re about to get wet, it smells like rain. Still caught in the moment, Danae shook her head, patted her thin shoulders with her small hands and loudly announced, “No, it smells like Him. It smells like God when you lay your head on His chest.” Tears blurred Diana’s eyes as Danae then happily hopped down to play with the other children.
Before the rains came, her daughter’s words confirmed what Diana and all the members of the extended Blessing family had known, at least in their hearts, all along.During those long days and nights of her first two months of her life, when her nerves were too sensitive for them to touch her, God was holding Danae on His chest and it is His loving scent that she remembers so well.
This is a real story.

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Sunday, 19 August 2012

9 Year Old Boy Cries During Audition - Then Amazes Everyone

9 Year Old Boy Cries During Audition - Then Amazes Everyone

Watch the above video and get inspired by Malaki's will to achieve something despite his small
age and the set back he suffered. Have a blessed sunday. It Is When We Are Weak That We Are Strong.

If God says Yes, Who can Say No?


Back in 2003, I gave birth to a very healthy, beautiful little girl, Kalei, who is now 6 years old. After a few years, my husband and I decided to try for a second child. We had no trouble conceiving Kalei, so I thought becoming pregnant would happen fast for me, but I was so wrong. 

After a few years trying, praying and crying, I decided to talk to my family doctor. He then reffered me to the doctor in the hospital, who confirmed my doctors suspicion, I have PCOS-Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. There are a lot of symptoms with this syndrome, and the biggest one is having a slim chance or no chance at all of becoming pregnant. I was still in the early stages, so the Doctor told me, if I want to have another baby, that I would have to go on fertility pills. 

I agreed, thinking that it probably wouldn't work b/c my husband works away in Alberta. I took the pills and on the day I was most fertile, my husband was gone away. I thought, "what's the point" . I went to the doctor for a checkup, waited 3 hrs before I gave up and came home, he was busy, I'm assuming, so I just left. And I was mad because I wasted 3 hrs of my life waiting when I could have been home with my daughter. 

I came home, and at some point I said "God, You are bigger than this. If You want me to become pregnant, I will, if not, then please help me to accept it, and be content with having just one child, whom I love dearly" I always wanted a second child, and my daughter wanted a sibling, and I was crushed b/c I 'couldn't' give her one, but God was carrying me all along. 

While one day waiting for my daughter outside her school to come home in October, someone asked me, "are you planning on anymore children" I always dreaded this question, so instead of getting into all the details, I said jokingly "My dear, I couldn't get pregnant if I was standing on my head" We laughed, my heart was breaking. But in a small way, I was accepting it. 

In December, of this year, I started getting sick and feeling nauseated all the time. My mom told me to "go to the doctor, you're pregnant my dear" my response was, "mom, I'm not, I can't get pregnant" 

I gave up and went to the Doctor, December 4th, he told me the news that I was pregnant. I was in shocked, but needless to say very excited. 

My prayer was answered, God stored and kept my tears, and He heard my cries. I am now 4 months pregnant, and have complete trust in God that He will protect my baby and keep this baby healthy. 


Every time I go into my kitchen, I look up at my ultrasound pictures of my lil baby, and I thank God for this tiny miracle. I Found out I have PCOS June, 2009, Found out I was pregnant Dec, 2009. All in God's plan :)

By Melinda Flannigan.

Be Positive People, God dey look you with corner eye.

Thursday, 16 August 2012

Don't Get Married If



If you’re not ready to delay gratification when your are angry. To hold your tongue, lower your voice and sometimes wait till the appropriate time, day or even month before you can deal with an issue thoroughly…. don’t get married. Immaturity is the inability to delay gratification. Marriage is for the mature.
If you’re not ready to leave center stage and allow someone else to become your focus, your study, your muses… don’t get married. Selfish people make very bad spouses. In marriage you don’t lose yourself but your heart has to be big enough to gain someone else. And soon, with God’s blessing: little, crying, diaper soiling, demanding little ones are coming!
If you are not ready, to stand up and calmly deal with meddling in laws as a united front: The opinionated sister, the insensitive uncle, the domineering father, the manner less brother, the nosy aunt….. don’t get married. Boundaries do not exist automatically, they must be created. A good spouse is committed to respectfully stand up for and protect their marriage from meddling relatives. Don’t abandon your spouse to your relatives. It’s betrayal.
If you are not ready to pay bills…. don’t get married. Love does not pay bills. Kenya power will not give a waiver because your love is O so strong and your gazes at each other, O so romantic.
If you are not ready to let go of your opposite sex “best friends” and invest that into your spouse. To like, to laugh, to play, to be silly and to enjoy life with them, above anyone else… don’t get married. Affairs happen because people did not marry their best friends. Someone else holds their heart. Someone else gets them better. Someone else inspires them more. Marry your best friend and cultivate your friendship so that you remain best friends.
If you are not ready to stop competing with the Joneses…. don’t get married. Let the Joneses buy their yatch when you are still walking, and enjoy the walk. Your journeys are different. They may have to cross the oceans but you may be going through the road route. A boat might not do you any good on your journey. You must be ready to pace yourselves: stop competing, stop spending your future before you get there, stop the debt, stop trying to impress people. You must be able to be content. To enjoy your journey without deciding your happiness simply by measuring your progress against other people.
If you are not ready to be an open book. To tell the whole story of your past, deal with the memories, expose the failures and risk rejection…. don’t get married. It is fraud to have someone sign off their life to you without the full details. The past is a touchy and demanding friend. It always shows up in the marriage. It doesn’t enjoy being ignored and the more you snob, the bolder it becomes and the more tantrums it throws. It will mess up the “neat” and “all together lovely” image that you are struggling to maintain.
If you are not ready to let go of your philandering and wild oats farming…. don’t get married. Don’t take somebody’s son or daughter and subject them to your germs, your indiscretions and your chips fungaz. It never ends well. It’s romanticized in the movies, it’s being fronted as the only “realistic” way to stay married and keep the fire burning. But truth be told, the only thing that the fire will burn will be you, your spouse and your children. That family will burn for generations in bitterness, disease, fear, failure, hatred, broken hearts, broken dreams and conniving.
Finally, if you are not ready to let go of the adrenalin rush ofa risque life and to settle down…. don’t get married. The great Colombus [who we were told "discovered" America, Have you ever wondered if the Native Indians who were in it, knew that it existed :-) ] had a diary that was long sought for. People wanted to read about the wild journeys, the sea tempest, the reckless pirates they fought, the death and the danger they must have encountered. When it was found, there was great disappointment. Majority of the pages simply had 5 words: “This day, we sailed on.”.
Marriage, like life in general, has many “we sail on” days. You have to learn to find the thrill in the normal everydayness of it. If you depend on wild romance, all night sex [ha], romantic cruises, wild parties, compulsive moves across continents, tempestuous fights and make up sessions to be happy, you may be disappointed. You have to learn to thrill in gentle smiles, loving hugs, knowing looks, cozy moments, shared chores, cute babies, everyday work, dreaming together, praying together and simply living together. If these things are not thrilling, exciting and satisfying, you will look for a way out. The “boom twaff” moments are still there, but they are normally punctuations to the usualness of living. They cannot be your reason for getting married. They are unsustainable on an everyday basis. The one you choose must be thrilling to you even in the most mundane of moments.
I pray this helps someone. Remember singles, YOU HAVE THE PRIVILEGE OF CHOICE. Never let anyone pressure you into marriage. You are either ready or you’re not: You decide!. But please don’t marry somebody and then punish them to live with your childish ways for the rest of their lives :-) . A childish baby is cute but a childish adult is extremely frustrating.
Marriage is for the mature and in many ways, we the married, are still being confronted with the demand to grow up day by day. If you are not ready for that demand, don’t get married!!!!
Barikiweni.- Author Judy Karanja

Sunday, 12 August 2012

Forget the bad, and focus on the good


A man and his fiance were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal: "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage." She offered.

"Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."

The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.

"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.

"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing" the husband replied, "keep reading your list."

The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.

"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists." She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

IN LIFE, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them.

We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise.

Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying things when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST when we see and praise the good and try our best to forego the mistakes of our spouse. Nobody's perfect but we can find perfection in them to change the way we see them. It is necessary to understand the difficulties and be a helping hand to each other....





"There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living. ♥" 

Wishing you guys a beautiful week!

Saturday, 11 August 2012

God Is Getting Ready For You


From Paralympics to the Olympics: Double Amputee South African Athlete, Oscar Pistorius Inspires the World at the London 2012 Olympics!


“You are not disabled by the disabilities you have. You are able by the abilities you have.” – Oscar Pistorius

The London 2012 Olympics boasts of a wealth of inspiring athletes whose stories of courage and determination continue to inspire.
25 year-old Oscar Pistorius whose record as the first double amputee to compete at the Olympics and the first athlete to compete at both the Paralympics and Olympics games is nothing short of inspiring.
The sprinter from South Africa made his debut at the Olympics this year and his presence at the Olympics was not only an inspiration to thousands of people living with disabilities around the world but also able-bodied people who have been encouraged by him.
He had his lower legs amputated as a baby after he was born without either fibula. According to hiswebsite, Pistorius took up running to bounce back from a rugby injury at the advice of his doctor when he was 16. The next year, he competed in his first Paralympic Games in Athens in 2004 and won a gold medal in the T44 200-meter race, breaking an existing world record.
His achievements in sports has garnered him worldwide recognition. He was one of the Time Magazine’s 100 Most Influential People in the World and is the 2012 Laureus Sportsperson of the Year with a Disability.
The man who is popularly called “The Blade Runner,” and “The fastest man with no legs” has  grown into one of the world’s fastest 400-meter runners.
Last Saturday, he ran on his prosthetic legs Flex-Foot Cheetahs in the first heat of the men’s 400-meter race, qualifying for the semifinal round. However, he did not qualify for the finals after running at the Semi-Finals but he is not out of the games yet. Pistorius is still expected to run the 4×400 relays, which starts on Thursday.
Pistorius had a challenging journey to qualifying for the Olympics. The IAAF, the world governing body for athletics, ruled him ineligible for competition in 2008, but the Court of Arbitration for Sports unanimously overturned that ruling a few months later. He attempted to qualify for the Beijing Games that summer, but came up short in the 400 and was not selected for South Africa’s 4×400-meter relay team. He did, however, win gold medals in the 100-, 200- and 400-meter races at the Beijing Paralympics, adding to a pair of medals he won in Athens.
Pistorius would compete in the Paralympc games coming up soon after the Olympic games in London.
His goal at the Olympics is to prove that Paralympic athletes are just as inspiring as able-bodied athletes and he has done just that. “At the end of the day, if I can show people that Paralympic athletes are just as inspiring as professional able-bodied athletes that would be great,” he told NBC.
We celebrate his doggedness in the face of obstacles and indeed, we are truly inspired.


Sunday, 5 August 2012

Determination



Read this:
A priest told this story about determination:
I normally visit the cancer ward in hospitals most times to get inspired and to pray with the Patients. There was this particular man, John by name, who was suffering from pancreatic cancer; one of d most severe of cancers.
Each time I visited and inquired about how the patients are fairing, the nurses and some doctors present would tell me John is sick and is expiring, they believed he won't survive but when I go in to see John he would tell me; "Father don't mind them am not going anywhere!" more so, he took his drugs promptly. And with each visit, I marvelled at John's determination to survive.
Its been 3 years now and John is alive and well saved by his will to live.


Determination is the difference between success and failure. When you ask God for Courage, He doesn't just throw it down but He gives you the opportunity to be courageous. He throws in the opportunity for you to become what you want to be.
My prayer for you this week is that you would have the opportunity to be the best at what you do and that you would excel in Jesus name, Amen!


Have a beautiful week!!!

Thursday, 2 August 2012

Humanity



 
A nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside.
“Your son is here,” she said to the old man. She had to repeat the words several times before the patient’s eyes opened.
Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young uniformed Marine standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out his hand. The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old man’s limp ones, squeezing a message of love and encouragement.
The nurse brought a chair so that the Marine could sit beside the bed. All through the night the young Marine sat there in the poorly lighted ward, holding the old man’s hand and offering him words of love and strength. Occasionally, the nurse suggested that the Marine move away and rest a while.
He refused. Whenever the nurse came into the ward, the Marine was oblivious of her and of the night noises of the hospital – the clanking of the oxygen tank, the laughter of the night staff members exchanging greetings, the cries and moans of the other patients.
Now and then she heard him say a few gentle words. The dying man said nothing, only held tightly to his son all through the night.
Along towards dawn, the old man died. The Marine released the now lifeless hand he had been holding and went to tell the nurse. While she did what she had to do, he waited.
Finally, she returned. She started to offer words of sympathy, but the Marine interrupted her.
“Who was that man?” he asked.
The nurse was startled, “He was your father,” she answered.
“No, he wasn’t,” the Marine replied.
“I never saw him before in my life.”
“Then why didn’t you say something when I took you to him?”
“I knew right away there had been a mistake, but I also knew he needed his son, and his son just wasn’t here. When I realized that he was too sick to tell whether or not I was his son, knowing how much he needed me, I stayed.”
 
An example of true humanity.
 

Wednesday, 1 August 2012

The Search For A Life Partner



(At a table in a candle-lit restaurant overlooking the ocean, man and woman sit gazing longingly into each others eye.)

Man: (taking her hand) Baby, I love you, and each time I look into your eyes I see forever and a day, hold my hand honey, let’s walk this road together, be my wife, have my kids. Baby, would you
please marry me?
Woman: (stands up and lands a stinging slap on his face) I knew it!
Man: Babe! you just slapped me?
Woman: I just knew it!
Man: You knew what?
Woman: So it was you?
Man: Me? what did I do?
Woman: (Pacing back and forth,pointing at him)So it was
you all along?
Man:Babe, you are scaring me!
Woman: Ha! and pastor said it!
Man: Pastor said what?
Woman: Yes, pastor saw it! Even I (beating her chest) I saw it in my dreams! So it was you?
Man: Babe! are you alright?
Woman: Keep quiet and let me talk. I have waited more than two
decades, I have prayed, fasted, s owed seeds, bought books and listened to tapes, even went out of my way to be nice to every male specie of marriageable age! Every Saturday was a different
mall, I went from the galleria to city mall, from the palms to e-center, looking for you! I left my “chick-lit-flicks” for sci-fi movies that I didn’t even understand, just so I could learn how to enjoy the
things you love. I took up new hobbies,watching football and play station. I went to Daystar, from Daystar, I went to House on the
rock,from House on the rock I went to This Present house, from there I went to Guiding light Assembly, looking everywhere for you like I was looking for a needle in a haystack!
(Turning around suddenly to face him)
Are you a needle? Did I have to buy a microscope or telescope to see you? I lost weight, went from a size 14 to a size 10, so that
when you see me you’d love what you see. I took a short course at Lagos business school, worked for all the Multi-nationals . I even
opted to be seconded to Australia, I said to myself, "maybe he is white.” I came back empty handed! Then I left Lagos, went to Abuja, from Abuja I went to Port-Harcourt, then I went all the way to Kano, abi? I didn’t even mind if you were “malo!” I joined hi-five, from hi-five to faceboook,then I went to twitter,I even had a blog on which I ranted, hoping you would show up! for where?
I uploaded only my best pictures on facebook, infact I took photo sessions to look my best, all for you o! My friends ended up matchmaking me with every Tom, Dick and Harry,at first I didn’t like it,but as I grew older, I embraced it! I attended all the weddings, whether the invitation was direct or indirect!You know what they say about meeting your life partner at weddings? The next place I was hoping to check was the moon, before you crawled out, crawled out from the house directly next to mine!So it was you all this while? The neighbour I said hello to every morning? Were you trying to destroy my faith? You almost rendered my prayer life useless? What were you doing HIBERNATING in that house all this while? What were you waiting for? What sign where you looking for? Do you want to kill me before you reveal yourself?!!!
(Man is speechless and confused, almost in tears)
(She then turns and sits with a mischievous smile on her face. Lowering her voice, she said softly)
I have waited almost three decades for you, and all along you were next door. I have loved you in advance and missed you even more.
(She holds out her hand).
Now be a gentleman, get down on your knees and put that rock on my finger!!

N.B: (To all single ladies)
Quit looking in all the wrong places, let "the man” find you,it’s
his job!
(To all the single men)
Please come out of hiding, the ladies are waiting, and remember,
it’s very “ungentlemanly” to keep a lady waiting!

THIS IS WISHING YOU BEST OF WHAT GOD HAS IN STUCK FOR YOU THIS NEW MONTH!!!

HAPPY NEW MONTH!